FAQs
AN ONLINE COURSE
Know exactly who he is within 30 minutes of meeting, speaking with or texting him, so you can get what you need, find someone who makes you happy, and stop getting hurt, using the same techniques used by police departments.
The How to Choose a Man Program is an online course that is specialized, individualized and practical. It teaches you how to find the love you deserve, get your needs met, and overcome any obstacles in your path to finding Mr. Right.
How will it help me?
Everyone tells you to choose a good person as a partner, but this course will actually teach you how to do that, using the same techniques used by police departments! Toxic men and narcissists always pretend to be great partners and can waste years of your life, break your heart, make you not trust yourself, or believe that the possibility to find a happy relationship even exists!
The How to Choose a Man Program is a self-Improvement online course that teaches you how to avoid toxic men using the same techniques used by police departments so you can know exactly who he is within 30 minutes of meeting, speaking with or texting him. You can then make decisions based on facts, not butterflies and guesswork, stop playing Russian Roulette with your love life, and find someone who makes you happy!
If you’re single, this course will transform your love life by teaching you to identify quality men, assess their character quickly, and avoid toxic relationships. It saves you time by helping you proactively connect with accomplished, serious men seeking real relationships. You’ll also rebuild self-esteem and learn to spot and steer clear of dangerous personalities like gaslighters, narcissists and love frauds.
This course helps you reclaim your time, heal from past relationships, and build self-respect by never settling for less in love. You’ll gain clarity on your needs and be able to find a supportive, accomplished partner for a joyful, adventurous life together—an epic love story worth celebrating.
It will leave you feeling confident, joyful and whole in how you approach the world of dating, love and romance.
What does the course consist of?
The How to Choose a Man Program consists of three modules that you work through at your own pace, as outlined below:
Course Curriculum & Benefits
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Module 1:
Intake Questionnaire: Defining your ideal partner and relationship.
3 Golden Rules Video: Creating a foundation.
Focus: A Fundamental Shift Video: Focusing on shifting your mindset from “being chosen” to “being the one who chooses.
Narcissistic Glossary -
Module 2:
The Romantic Interrogation Toolkit Move beyond guesswork with the RIT Assignment. You’ll learn how to ask the right questions to uncover a man’s true character and compatibility before you get deeply invested. -
Module 3:
The Acceptance Philosophy Break the cycle of chasing unavailable people. Through the Opening New Doors framework, you’ll shift your focus toward partners actually capable of love, centering your worth on the “Acceptance Philosophy.”
What’s Included:
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Action-Oriented Assignments: Strategic worksheets (RIT & Opening New Doors) to apply these tools to your real-life dating.
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Expert Video Guides: Focused lessons on maintaining your “Golden Rules” and staying selective.
Testimonials
When I first heard of the How to Choose a Man course, my love life was a mess, and I had reached the point where I truly thought I would spend the rest of my life alone. After doing the course, I completely turned it around and am now in a happy relationship! I can’t thank Melissa enough, or say enough good things about it!
I had always been in relationships, one after the other, but they were never good ones. I had never taken the time to find out what I wanted, or to find a truly compatible partner. Even if I had, I had no idea how to tell the liars from those who were genuine, with the world being as it is! All this, and more, was resolved in the How to Choose a Man course. I am now on a truly healthy path, and dating eligible men who actually can make me happy. My only problem now is choosing among them!
By the time I had the good fortune to hear about the How to Choose a Man course, I had pretty much decided to spend the rest of my life alone. The world of love had only led to disappointment and heartbreak. Despite this, deep in my heart I knew that being alone forever would not make me happy. After doing the course, I was able to get excited about love again, find real prospects, know how to choose healthy partners, and am happy to say I have found the love of my life in the place I least expected it!
We are all looking for love, and have so much love to give, but occasionally we need help to find the happy relationship that we all want. Sometimes it’s a little bit of guidance, and other times it’s a complete change in direction and a whole new approach.
Accepting help on your journey is the ultimate sign of strength, and means that you’re willing to step out of your comfort zone to reinvent and take ownership of your love life.
In this online course you will:
- Identify and rectify unhealthy ways of choosing men
- Overcome fears of getting hurt and learn how to get your needs met
- Filter out toxic men
- Learn how to stop wasting time on the wrong men
- Develop resilience that will allow you to accurately assess potential dates
- Develop a focused, robust, ‘I am choosing’ mindset
- Create a true assessment of your ideal partner
- Identify your relationship goals and what you need to be happy
- Create a productive, healthy road map that will guide your future partner in giving you what you need
- Create productive communication habits
- Learn how to increase your dating pool, network and meet more men
- Acquire the tools you need to find and identify the love of your life
- Stop getting hurt and bring back your joy!
The sessions are about doing work: self-assessment, implementing a new set of tools, and opening new doors. There will be homework assignments and concrete steps and guidelines to be applied so you can create the love life of your dreams and overcome any obstacles you’re facing.
If you’re ready to take ownership over your love life, you’ll need three things:
- An open mind
- A brave heart
- A willingness to try new things
“Let the light of love create joy in your heart.
